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The Traffic Light Method
for Communication

Written by Michael Brookman-Aikins


Have you ever said or done something
in conflict that surprised you?
Something that didn’t feel like you?

A practical guide to understanding your reactions and finding your way back to each other.

Out 13 December 2026
Ebook first

Also available at

WHAT THIS BOOK MAKES POSSIBLE

Find the moment before it becomes the pattern.

Find the moment before it becomes the pattern.

Notice

Recognise the first shifts in a conversation before they harden into distance.

Understand

Make sense of the reactions that arrive before you have words for them.

Repair

Choose a way back to each other when the conversation has gone off course.

PREVIEW EDITION

Read the beginning, free.

Read the beginning, free.

Read the beginning, free.

The opening chapter of The Traffic Light Method for Communication. The night the book started, the author’s note, and your first taste of Red. Thirty pages, exactly as they appear in the book.

Free to read and share, unmodified. The full book arrives 13 December.

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Michael Brookman-Aikins

First-time author. A writer drawn to the answers we usually miss.

Michael Brookman-Aikins is a London-born design engineer based in Amsterdam. He has spent his career making complicated things clear, first in design, now on the page.

The Traffic Light Method for Communication is his first book, completed after a year and a half of writing, listening, and refining the conversations that shaped it.

The Green Bench · The Written Episodes

Conversations from the world of the book. Two people, one bench, honest questions. Written by the author. Same bench, no cameras.

Conversations from the world of the book. Two people, one bench, honest questions. Written by the author. Same bench, no cameras.

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The Body Knows First

Available September 11, 2026
Episode 2 · The Body Knows First · September 11, 2026
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Not Myself

Available September 18, 2026
Episode 3 · Not Myself · September 18, 2026
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The Come Down

Available October 30, 2026
Episode 4 · The Come Down · October 30, 2026
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The Yellow Divide

Available November 6, 2026
Episode 5 · The Yellow Divide · November 6, 2026
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Drafts Never Sent

Available November 13, 2026
Episode 6 · Drafts Never Sent · November 13, 2026
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The Smile That Isn’t

Available November 20, 2026
Episode 7 · The Smile That Isn’t · November 20, 2026
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What Safety Feels Like

Available November 27, 2026
Episode 8 · What Safety Feels Like · November 27, 2026
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The Argument That Brought Us Closer

Available December 4, 2026
Episode 9 · The Argument That Brought Us Closer · December 4, 2026
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The Way Back

Available December 11, 2026
Episode 10 · The Way Back · December 11, 2026

The filmed series arrives soon. The bench exists in writing first.

WHEN YOU’RE READY

A calmer conversation can begin with one honest pause.

A calmer conversation can begin with one honest pause.

Available as an ebook from 13 December 2026.

A practical guide to noticing the moment before a conversation becomes a pattern.

A practical guide to noticing the moment before a conversation becomes a pattern.

© 2026 Michael Brookman-Aikins